Wedding receptions – an alternative for traditional parties
One short question that raises many doubts among couples planning to get married. In today’s article, I will try to explain why a more modest celebration may turn out to be quite a good solution for people looking for something slightly different than a festive traditional Polish wedding.
Weddings for 100-200 people are slowly starting to give way to intimate wedding receptions. This is because, as per the on-going recent events in the world, people want to feel safe and secure. Couples often decide to invite only their close family and friends. Currently, the borders of many countries are still closed, so the presence of foreign guests at the wedding still is thoroughly taken into consideration. Elderly and sick people are also reluctant to confirm their presence at large family events, so often, regardless of the bride and groom, the guest list is severely limited.
Those who value an intimate atmosphere on their reception certainly appreciate the presence of their closest family and friends. No DJ or orchestra? No problem. Music played only in the background creates a cosy atmosphere. A really good idea might be to have a pianist or violinist playing calm music in the background.
When choosing a space for the wedding dinner, it is worth paying attention to a possibility of setting tables in a place that is slightly separated from other people staying in the restaurant.
It is also worth mentioning that choosing a small recepttion does not mean giving up the traditional wedding’s elements completely. A sumptuous wedding cake, solemn toasts and touching thanks to the parents are unforgettable momets of celebration. Regardless of the size of the reception, they additionally make the wedding day even more sublime occassion.
The reason why couples often choose more modest parties is the fact that both the bride and groom as well as their guests are not so exausted as they would be after dancing all night. Therefore, the newlyweds might pack their bags the next day and set out for their honeymoon for the amount they could have saved for choosing a smaller wedding party.
Additionally, during the wedding dinner, the newlyweds can fully focus on celebrating this special time together, without unnecessary stress often caused by making sure that the wedding ceremony is going according to plan; whether meals are served on time or whether the dance leader remembers each of the previously arranged games.
Regardless of the decision whether it’s a traditonal wedding or just a intimate reception, newlyweeds need to remember that the significance of this day is simply spending time with family and friends. With people who we want to share all positive emotions with, and love that united two completely stranger families.
— SARA NOWAK
24 LIPIEC 2020